I can’t believe it. My baby is turning 18 in a few days. I don’t think I was prepared for the mix of emotions it would be having him hit this milestone.
I should back up. When I was his age, he was growing inside me. He changed me as a person. I was now responsible for this tiny being, and I had no idea the impact he would have on me.
I spent the first few years of his life growing up with him. Figuring out how to pay bills, cook, and understanding little things (like how insurance works). All while, working, caring for him, and maintaining a home.
He was everything I needed, but wasn’t ready for. I didn’t understand people wanting kids before I had him. Once I had him I finally got it. I had him and watched my heart and soul grow legs and have it’s own heartbeat.
I’ve made my share of parenting mistakes, but he has always forgiven me. He was the first to teach me what unconditional love truly is. I remember when I was crying after his Dad and I went our separate ways. I was crying on the floor and Micah found me, I turned and said I was sorry…I felt terrible for not making it work. Of course I wanted my children to have both of their parents in the same household. I was scared for everything that was going to change. It was Micah’s little 9 year old self who hugged me and said it’s ok, you can do this.
I’ve spent the last 18 years trying to give him the tools to manage his way through adulthood. I pray and hope he understands what it means to be an adult male. I know he will make some mistakes, but as a parent you always worry about what you can’t plan for. Like what type of mistakes will happen. I just have to trust he will do his best to make good decisions, and surround himself with good people.
I can’t protect him from everything. I hope he knows I am his #1 fan, and love him more than he will ever know.
Happy 18th Micah!! I love the young man you have become!